In 2008, my world changed. My sister, Amey, was diagnosed with leukemia. I was just seven years old.
That same year, through my second-grade teacher, Mrs. Sturm, I joined Team Squiggy and Friends at my school’s head-shaving event. When I learned that I could shave my head and raise money to help fund childhood cancer research—not only for my sister’s treatment, but for millions of other children across the United States—I didn’t hesitate. Even at seven, I felt an immediate obligation to do something. Shaving my head felt like a simple act, but the impact behind it was powerful. It was my way of standing beside Amey and every child facing cancer.
Matt and his sister Amey
That first event sparked something much bigger the following year.
The idea to create a team, Amey’s Allies, was originally my mom’s. She believed I could rally my friends, cousins, and classmates to join the cause each year. She was right. What started as a small group quickly became a growing community united by one mission: to fund research and support kids fighting cancer.
This March will mark my 18th year as team captain of Amey’s Allies. Eighteen years of recruiting teammates, fundraising, and preparing for one of the most meaningful days of the year.
One of my most memorable moments happened just a couple of years ago. My sister flew in from school in Tampa to attend our event. Our incredible coordinator invited a doctor from the Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia to speak. He shared how critical pediatric cancer research funding is and how events like ours directly support his work—funding equipment, medicine, and procedures that weren’t even possible just a few years ago. Hearing firsthand how our efforts translate into real breakthroughs was overwhelming in the best way. It reminded all of us why we show up year after year.
Matt and the Event Organizer, Toni Tate, in 2023
Growing up within the St. Baldrick’s community has shaped me in ways I never could have imagined. It has taught me responsibility, leadership, and a deep sense of care for others. There’s a certain feeling in the room on event day—one of unity, purpose, and hope—that’s hard to put into words. I feel a responsibility each year to keep that spirit alive and to continue raising funds for this incredible organization.
Every year, I tell newcomers a few things:
- You don’t have to shave your head to be part of it.
- It will be the most rewarding day of your year.
- Everyone in the room at the event are some of the greatest people in the community, and you will not want to miss it!
St. Baldrick’s started as a way for me to support my sister. It has become a long-term commitment to standing with kids fighting cancer. And after 18 years, I’m just getting started.
